4 Things I Wish Everyone Knew About Travel

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Days after I graduated from college, I arrived in Amsterdam. After months of planning, the day had finally come. I was off on my European backpacking adventure.

Theses are 4 things I wish everyone knew about travel.

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Over the course of five weeks, I visited 12 cities in four different countries. I learned about language, history, culture, food and, even, myself.

But above all, I learned about travel.

Now, four years and many trips with my trusty backpack later, here are four things I wish everyone knew about travel:

1. It doesn’t have to be expensive.

One of the things I love most about travel is how many options you have. Should I go to Europe or South America? Climb to the top of the Eiffel Tower or take a cruise down the Seine? Travel by train or bus? Eat jamón ibérico or paella? Sleep in a hostel or hotel? The choice is yours, my friend!

Use those options to your advantage! If you do your research and understand your choices, travel doesn’t have to be expensive. There is a trip for every budget! When I’m traveling, I prioritize in order to spend money on what’s most important to me. For example, I stay in hostels and eat the occasional grocery store sandwich for dinner in order to have money to spend on a fun night out. Other travelers might prioritize private rooms and nice dinners over spending money on nightlife activities.

When you’re traveling on a budget, you won’t be able to do everything. Instead, prioritize what’s important to you and spend accordingly.

2. You’re not going to get murdered in a hostel.

I wonder if Director Eli Roth knew how many people he was going to scare away from staying in hostels when he released Hostel back in 2006. PSA: Hostels — even ones in eastern Europe — are not scary!

Since my first backpacking trip in 2014, I’ve stayed in nearly 100 hostels. I can tell you what it’s really like to stay in a hostel. They are a great choice for budget-conscious travelers. But even if I have the money to spend on a hotel or Airbnb, I often prefer staying in hostels because they are a fun environment for travelers to meet and interact. I’ve had some of the best nights of my life with people I met in hostels.

Not into bunk beds or sharing a bathroom? Most hostels offer a variety of accommodation including single-sex and private rooms.

These are four things I wish everyone knew about travel.
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3. There are no “must-see” destinations.

When I was planning my first backpacking trip, I was getting advice from everyone. You need to visit London. Don’t miss El Prado. You can’t go to Venice and not ride in a gondola!!! It was overwhelming.

The most important thing to remember about your trip is this: it’s your trip.

Visit the cities you want to visit. See the sights you want to see. Eat at the places you want to eat. Travel the way you want to travel.

When I went to Rome, I realized I didn’t have the time, money or energy to visit both the Colosseum and Vatican City. I prioritized and spent a memorable day exploring the Colosseum. Some people are shocked I went to Rome and didn’t go to Vatican City. How could you?! But, I’m content with my decision. Advice is great, but don’t let family, friends, guidebooks or travel bloggers pressure you into an itinerary.

4. You can do it alone.

This summer, I traveled solo for the first time ever.

Since I graduated from college, my boyfriend has accompanied me for the majority of my adventures. I have also done several trips with friends and various family members. This July though, I backpacked on my own.

On a postcard I sent my parents from Berlin, I wrote that traveling alone had led me to discover a different part of myself. Not only did I become comfortable doing things on my own, but I actually enjoyed it. Yay, independence!

Traveling solo reignited my sense of adventure. I took an overnight bus to Amsterdam, couch surfed in Poland and stayed out till sunrise with a tour guide I met in Berlin. In your face, comfort zone!

These are four things I wish everyone knew about travel.
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What do you wish everyone knew about travel?

Euro Trip 2017: Best Travel Moments

 

In May 2014, just days after graduating from college, I arrived in Amsterdam and thus commenced my first Euro trip. This July, after two years on the continent, I set off on my second.

These are the best travel moments from my Euro trip!

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A personal tour of Munich

After a night out, which began with a rowdy bar crawl and ended in the packed hostel bar, I woke up for my first full day in Munich a little later than I’d hoped. The late start meant my traveling companions and I missed the start of the free walking tour. Ordinarily that would have been a total bummer, but our new friend, Conner, who we’d met on the bar crawl and had attended the walking tour the previous day, half-jokingly offered to guide us. He was fantastic. Not only did Conner take us to all the important spots, but he recalled an impressive amount of German history! I’ve been on a lot of walking tours, but this one was the best—which is saying a lot considering our hangovers.

Here are the best travel moments from my Euro trip!
Prost! I can barely lift that stein to take a sip!

Not knowing anything about Slovenia

When I was planning this trip, I realized I had a few days to kill between Munich and meeting a friend in Stuttgart. I considered a slew of destinations including Switzerland, Greece and Italy, but in the end, I decided on Slovenia. For less than 20 euros, Taylor and I traveled from Munich to Ljubljana. The five-hour ride included a 20-minute stop at what has to be the most beautiful gas rest area in the world, located in the heart of the Julian Alps. I arrived knowing very little about the country but quickly fell in love. Between the rad feminist history in Ljubljana to the gorgeous nature in Bled, Slovenia turned out to be exactly our scene. Sometimes no travel prep is the best travel prep. Expectations often ruin a destination.

Here are the best travel moments from my Euro trip!
We spent a beautiful day at Vintgar Gorge in Bled, Slovenia.

Shots at Sweet Memories

In June, I had the pleasure of hosting my friend, also named Alex, in Madrid. In July, he returned the favor in Stuttgart, Germany. We’ve been friends since sitting next to each other in eighth grade algebra. So, starting our night out at Sweet Memories seemed right. It was a total dive, complete with creepy old German men, and the bartender charged me 20 euros for three shots of knockoff Jägermeister. But, being with an old friend definitely made for a sweet memory.

These are the best travel moments from my Euro trip!
Alex and Alex in Esslingen! We took the train to this picturesque little town just outside Stuttgart.

Couch surfing in Krakow

After Stuttgart, my ever-faithful travel buddy, Taylor, and I parted ways. I was on my own and decided to couch surf. For me, it wasn’t about a free place to stay. Even my limited budget would have afforded a couple nights in one of Poland’s famously cheap hostels. I wanted the chance to discover the city from a local’s point of view and perhaps even make a new friend. Utilizing Couchsurfing, a social networking website that connects travelers with hosts, I met Maja and Anna. Not only did my hosts provide me with a place to stay and information about the city, but they also went out of their ways to include me in their plans. I left Krakow having made two new friends.

These are the best travel moments from my Euro trip!
Krakow is an almost perfectly preserved medieval city. Unlike most of Poland, it wasn’t bombed during WWII. Image Credit: Dennis Jarvis

Berlin living up to its hype

The 11-hour bus ride from Krakow was an absolute nightmare (potholes, potholes, potholes), but I was willing to do whatever it took to get to Berlin. I’ve wanted to visit Berlin ever since I planned my first Euro trip, and although high expectations for a destination sometimes lead to disappointment, Berlin lived up to the hype. Famous for its music, dance and art scene, Berlin is known around the world for having a genuinely cool vibe. On my second day, I joined the Alternative Berlin walking tour. After three hours of learning about the city’s street art and graffiti culture, the tour ended at Yaam. It was there I got chatting with the guide and ended up having one of the best nights of my Euro trip. The sun was rising as I got back to my hostel.

Here are the best travel moments from my Euro trip!
I’m not usually one for churches, but I liked the Berlin Cathedral, which is located on the city’s Museum Island. Image Credit: Jörg Schubert

 

Have you ever done a Euro trip? What were the best travel moments?

WiFi Woes: What to do when everything isn’t perfect

I wish I could write that moving to Mexico has been smooth sailing. That everything has been perfect and wonderful and according to plan. But, that would be a lie.

You see, we still don’t have WiFi.

As much as I love Mexico, my first month here hasn't been without its challenges. Primarily, our WiFi woes.

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WiFi Woes

Earlier this week, Taylor and I spent two hours in line at the customer service desk of our (someday) internet service provider. We signed a contract with Megacable on Nov. 1 but have yet to hear anything regarding a definite installation date.

The customer service associate told us we could expect installation to occur sometime within the 17 days following our signup date.

Perhaps you’re thinking, “Okay, 17 days sucks, but you’ll survive. You don’t need Netflix to live!”

It’s much more than simply streaming our favorite tv shows. Without WiFi, we aren’t able to work. Yes, a big part of teaching English online is being online.

The WiFi situation has been frustrating to say the least. It’s forced us to rent an Airbnb, cancel classes and reevaluate our finances. Not exactly what we had in mind for our first month in Mexico.

As much as I love Mexico, my first month here hasn't been without its challenges. Primarily, our WiFi woes.
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Attitude Adjustment

Leaving the Megacable office, we both felt incredibly down. Our efforts to contract service with other companies have been fruitless. At one point, we had an installation appointment with a company called Wizz only to receive a call an hour before the technician was scheduled to show up and learn our area didn’t have coverage.

We were and still are out of options. All we can do is wait and hope that Megacable contacts us. Our 17 days ends this Saturday.

I don’t care if this sounds dramatic, but this situation has left me feeling pretty hopeless at times. My absolute lowest was when Taylor asked me if we were going to have to move back to Michigan.

Before I could answer, “F*CK THAT” flashed in my mind like a giant neon sign.

Not everything was going to be easy. I knew that, and I still wanted to move to Mexico. I was fully aware that there would be bumps in the road. Ups and downs.

Yet, I encountered the first hardship and forgot all that. Time for an attitude adjustment.

When you decide to follow your dreams, you better be ready to take the good with the bad. Despite what your favorite travel blogger might post on Instagram, it’s not all rainbows and butterflies.

But, that doesn’t mean it’s not worth it.

As much as I love Mexico, my first month here hasn't been without its challenges. Primarily, our WiFi woes.
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Moving Forward

I don’t know when we’re going to get WiFi. It could be tomorrow. It could be Saturday. It could be never.

What I do know is that I’m going to embrace this and whatever other challenges come my way. I don’t have to like it, but I can acknowledge it as part of my experience and, in doing so, feel a little bit better.

Have you ever moved abroad? If so, what challenges did you face? How did you overcome them?